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Friday November 2nd 2018

I didn’t get much sleep last night cause I worked till 1 and didn’t actually start falling asleep till like 2:30am… and which point my boyfriends alarm started lighting up cause he has one of those sunrise alarms… cause he had to work at 4! So then I went back to sleep around 4 but I couldn’t sleep and woke up at like 10. Anyway, bae got home at 12 and napped while I got ready and then we went for some food at stellas! He wasn’t hungry so he just got a green smoothie and I got the ratatouille cause I’ve always wanted to try it cause of that movie! Also got a vegan chocolate cake and some coffee!

Then we walked over to get his birth certificate since it was stolen a while back and he never got a new one! Then I had work, closing again. It got helllllaaaa busy from like 5:30-7 like it was stressful. My tables were mostly happy tho lol except one guy who said he hadn’t been helped even tho I greeted him and he wasn’t ready… like whet. It was a long boring night after that and I chugged a ton of coffee. Now I’m laying in bed with my babe about to go to sleep 😊😇 it was a pretty good day.

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Don’t allow other people’s negativity to pollute the kindness in your heart

Yesssss 👏👏👏 trans friends getting the love …

Yesssss 👏👏👏 trans friends getting the love and respect and support they deserve from their partner is what I fucking LIVE for

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You never realize, when you been fucking around with douche bags who treat you like a common door mat, how nice it is when someone finds you and treats you so right 💕

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Honestly, you can do one of three things in life. 1, You can numb your emotions and become an emotional robot, 2, you can allow yourself to feel but be paranoid and afraid of losing everything, or 3, you can put yourself out there and put your whole heart into everything you do.

Option 1 sucks because, yeah, you might not feel any real pain if you don’t let yourself love or get attached to anything. But also you won’t feel any real joy and it’s going to be a sad, empty existence for you. That is if you’re even successful in suppressing your emotions.

Option 2 is worse than option 1 because not only are the good things not even going to be enjoyable to you, but you’ll also get to feel the crushing pain of heart break, abandonment and all the other bad feelings, too.

Allowing yourself to get attached to people and love people and places and things is a good first step. That’s what we’re meant to do. But if you’re just paranoid the whole time, y’know, “Do they really even love me?” “What if they cheat on me?” “What if it doesn’t work out?” then you’re never going to enjoy the good times. Plus you’re going to summon all of the bad things you’re afraid of with this type of mindset. Self fulfilling prophecy.

So for example if you do this in a relationship, you’re not going to enjoy any of the happy good times of being in love and enjoying eachother. And then when/if it ends or bad things happen, you’re still going to be just as crushed and heart broken but it won’t have even been worth it because you didn’t get anything good out of it.

I’ve tried both of these mindsets before because I was afraid to let myself love. I was afraid to put my heart out there. I was afraid to trust. I think that’s human nature really. When you’ve been burned, and all of us have, you become more and more guarded.

But I’ve realized the only way to truly live and experience life the way it’s meant to be, is to put your entire heart into it, forget about the past and the future, let all the paranoia slip away and just live in the moment. Any of us could lose everything tomorrow. But we’ll deal with that when/if it happens. As for now, cherish what you do have. Don’t worry about how things could go wrong. Open your heart and let yourself be free 💕✌️

I know it’s easier said than done and it takes a bit of emotional training. We’re all human, nothing to be ashamed of. All I’m saying is to acknowledge it and work on it because it will improve your life ❤️

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Can people just like,,, treat their partners right? Almost every human being on this earth is walking around, fucking traumatized by their past relationships because they were treated so horribly.

Love your partner for who they are. Love every part of them. Consider their feelings. Listen to them. Don’t lie to them. Make them feel important. Treat them like a human being, really.

If you can’t handle that, don’t be in a relationship. It’s so simple.

Yeah…. this is me

Yeah…. this is me

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