Not the last anon, but I'm also confused …

Not the last anon, but I'm also confused about my sexuality. I always thought I was straight, I've had a boyfriend for a year and sometimes fantasized about girls but pushed it out of my head. Last night I was happily imagining my boyfriend's upcoming birthday, how I'm going to surprise him with a cute romantic picnic, and all of a sudden my brain replaced him with a girl. I got this excited butterfly feeling in my stomach, but also massive guilt. :/ Any advice?

You could be bisexual or maybe lesbian. It’ll take some time to figure out. For me I thought I was a lesbian a couple times. Being bisexual is hard because sometimes you’ll lean more toward girls and sometimes you’ll lean more toward boys and sometimes you’ll lean more toward non binary people (depending on your individual sexuality). For me I’d let myself think I only liked girls when I was going through that phase or think I only liked boys when I was going through that phase. So don’t worry too much about it if you’re having thoughts about girls and you still have a boyfriend. You could be a lesbian but I’m talking more in terms of if you’re bisexual just because I don’t want you to immediately dump your boyfriend thinking you’re gay if you end up actually being bisexual. I’m not trying to say it’s a bad thing to be a lesbian I’m just talking in terms of the relationship you’re currently in. Just take some time to think about everything and it’ll be ok in the end (:

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